12-Month Wedding Planning Checklist 12 months before Wedding Checklist Make a guest list Decide on style and theme Choose a bridal party Book a venue Hire photographer Hire band and DJ Wedding dress shopping 9 months before Wedding Checklist Select caterer Select invitations Bridesmaid dresses Book flowers Wedding website Order invitations 12 months before Wedding Checklist Choose wedding rings Book honeymoon Schedule wedding shower Send invitations Order wedding cake 3 months before Wedding Checklist Create seating chart Choose guest favours Meet with the officiant Hair and makeup trial Book transport Choose ceremony songs 1 month before Wedding Checklist Dress fitting Pick up the marriage license Write wedding vows Finalize the guest count 1 week before Wedding Checklist Practice wedding vows Mani & Pedi Facial treatment Hair appointment After the wedding Wedding Checklist Send thank you cards Share photos